Marriage Statistics

DID YOU KNOW?

  • 50% of all new marriages end in divorce.
  • Poor communication skills and the inability to resolve conflict are leading causes of divorce.
  • Couples who participate in marriage preparation programs experience a 30% increase in marital success over those who do not participate.
  • Of those couples who pray together in their homes on a regular basis, the divorce rate is 0.3% (or one divorce out of every 300 couples).
  • A healthy marriage contributes to greater physical and emotional health, greater job stability and satisfaction, higher wages, and increased life expectancies.
  • Many couples today are seriously lacking in conflict resolution and communication skills, which can strip marriage of intimacy and satisfaction.
  • Married people (43% very happy) are happier than unmarried couples (24% very happy) and this has been a consistent finding over the years.

COHABITATION

  • From 1960 to 1998 the number of unmarried, cohabitating couples increased nearly tenfold from 439,000 to 4.2 million. In 2008 6.8 million unmarried opposite-sex couples were living together.
  • By age 30, three-quarters of women in the U.S. have been married and about half have cohabitated outside of marriage.
  • Cohabiting couples and unmarried families report greater rates of unhappiness, dissatisfaction and high amounts of conflict.
  • Cohabitation before marriage significantly increases the chances for divorce later on, with a divorce rate of 73%.
  • Only 53% of first cohabiting unions result in marriage.
  • 80% of women who cohabitate before marriage will end up divorced.
  • Those living together before marriage do not experience the best sex.
  • The probability of a first marriage ending in separation or divorce within 5 years is 20%, but the probability of a premarital cohabitation marriage breaking up within 5 years is 50%.

NATURAL FAMILY PLANNING

  • Couples report that Natural Family Planning is a marriage building experience. There is a less than 5% divorce rate among couples practicing NFP. It improves communication and gives the couple a deeper respect for each other.
  • NFP has a 99.5% method effectiveness rate for couples avoiding pregnancy.
  • Using NFP is very helpful in aiding in the evaluation and treatment of infertility.
  • There are many benefits to NFP including: it is medically safe, proven reliable, flexible, natural and cooperative with your body, a shared system between husband and wife, comparatively inexpensive and respects the dignity of women and men.

WHEN IT COMES TO KIDS…

  • Children of divorce and single parent homes are three times more likely to drop out of school or to have a baby as a teenager, five times as apt to live in poverty and are 12 times more likely to be incarcerated.
  • Children of divorce are at increased risk for an array of emotional and psychological problems that can extend well into adulthood.
  • Divorce can cause serious emotional and psychological scarring, and overwhelming financial burdens.
  • When divorce happens once, it’s more likely to happen again with a second marriage.

Sources:
The United States Conference of Catholic Bishops
The National Marriage Project
Institute for American Values
The Coalition for Marriage, Family & Couples Education
Professor Janet E. Smith, PhD.
National Center for Health Statistics

2012 Search for Love & Truth
Convocation on Marriage and Family Life

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